Dad's Grieve Too

Dads Grieve Too is a project by Hannah and Phil Pontillo, to help Dads open up and share their stories about pregnancy and baby loss.

A new story is published every Monday night, written by a dad wanting to share his feelings about his loss. It's a very important series and we encourage any dads who would like to read others experiences or share their own story to visit the blog.

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(please note that all opinions and thoughts expressed in this blog are from those who have written them)

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10 Taylor Swift Inspired Baby Names

Hey there, fellow Swifties! Are you expecting a baby and looking for a name that has Taylor vibes? Well, you're in the right place; we have some suggestions.
The Hidden Risks of Using Fetal Dopplers at Home

Fetal dopplers detect and amplify the sound of the fetal heartbeat - and other sounds. However, despite their widespread availability, these devices are not without dangers. At Kicks Count, we always encourage informed decisions - so here's a couple of things to consider:
Winnie's Arrival: Trusting Instincts and Monitoring Movement

Proud mum Amelia's shares her journey of maternal intuition - and the importance of tracking fetal movements.
A Timely Intervention: Charlie's Birth Story

Saving lives with timely intervention - how Charlie's intuition, and fast-acting hospital team, ensured her son's safe arrival.

Baby Loss certificate launched

Baby loss certificates for parents who experienced a loss of pregnancy before 24 weeks are now available for application from 9am today (22 February 2024).
Getting Through Grief: Elizabeth's Journey

How do you ever get over the death of your baby? After losing my son I didn't think I would ever feel normal again. But, eventually, I managed to let life in.
The Legacy of Kicks Count: Chloe and Toby

Where Kicks Count Began: Chloe and Toby's Stories, told by their mums, Founder Sophia and CEO Elizabeth.
Chrissy Teigan and John Legend announce heartbreaking loss of their baby

Chrissy Teigan shared the devastating news that she and her husband John Legend have lost their baby.
Thortful: Validation for Bereaved Mothers on Mother's Day

Bereaved mum Hannah Pontillo, mum to Dexy and River, and card company Thortful, want to ensure bereaved mothers feel valued and validated this Mother's Day.
Where Kicks Count Began: Chloe's Story

This is the story of a special little girl, Chloe Wyatt. Chloe was stillborn in 2009, but her legacy lives on in Kicks Count.
Provide literature in memory

We send literature to hospitals all over the UK. You can sponsor a delivery in memory of a loved one
The Toby effect

I know that however dire things get (death excluded) I will come out the other end better than before. And how do I know this? Toby. My baby. The baby I buried. If anything was going to break me, that was it.
Spotting signs of Post-natal depression

Postnatal depression can develop gradually and it can be hard to recognise. Some parents may avoid talking to family and friends about how they’re feeling because they worry they’ll be judged for not coping or not appearing happy. Here we pinpoint some of the signs to look out for.
Support Organisations & Useful Links

If you've lost your baby, we are so sorry. We are a stillbirth and neonatal death prevention charity and have links to support and information charities. Here you can find links to organisations which we hope you find useful.

Anterior Placenta: Your Questions Answered

What is the placenta? What does it mean to have an anterior placenta? The placenta is an incredible organ, belonging to both you and your baby. Learn more about your baby's lifeline and what an anterior placenta means for baby movement.
Your Baby's Movements

Feeling your baby move is a sign they are well. Here's all you need to know about why you should monitor your baby's movements - and how.
Kicks Count Wristbands

How can a Kicks Count Wristband help me? How do you use one? We answer your frequently asked questions.
Hollyoaks star Kirsty-Leigh Porter reveals tragic stillbirth

Hollyoaks star Kirsty-Leigh Porter has revealed her precious baby girl was stillborn on 21st December 2018.
FMH and reduced movements

My baby was born alive thanks to your campaign, I would have taken the advice about baby movements from my parents as gospel otherwise ... after all, they have 6 kids between them, they are the experts ... aren't they???
How many Kicks should I feel in 1 hour?

There is no set number of movements you need to feel in one hour, 2 hours or 24 hours. Get to know what is normal for your baby and report any change immediately.
What can I expect when I report reduced movement?

The care you receive when you report a change in movement will depend on your stage of pregnancy. Here you can find out what to expect.
Why Ditch the Doppler?

In 2017 Kicks Count launched a campaign to regulate or ban the sale of home dopplers to expectant parents in the UK. Here the CEO explains why.
Free Kick Counting App

The Kicks Count app is designed to help you get to know your baby’s regular pattern of movement, once you have recorded sessions the graphs section will show you your baby’s movements over the last 2, 7 and 14 days.
Gary Barlow discusses the heartbreaking stillbirth of his daughter Poppy

Gary Barlow has spoken out about the heartbreaking stillbirth of his daughter Poppy. The Take That singer, 47, described how she was stillborn at full term days before he had to perform at the closing ceremony of the 2012 Olympics.